A Lot Of Interesting Questions

Dear Ciro, I read your blog to Gabri of Mantova about Synastry. Perhaps I share this problem? I score 27 points on your relationship scale, but still my partner and I do not get along well. (Oshkosh, WI USA Feb 24,1968 10:24AM) and (San Antonio, TX, Oct 18, 1972 7:09PM). Thank you kindly, julie

Dear Julie,  

the matter "Synastry" is very difficult if we abandon the theory and we try to report our forecasts to the practice.
Currently I am writing, with a good Italian female colleague, a book on the synastries. 

All of us have to remember, before every other thing, that the life of couple is the experience of the life more difficult to realize because while for the job - for example - the results can be directly proportional to our efforts, in the life of couple, instead, there are a lot of other variables that we cannot dominate with our wish and with our efforts.  
It is necessary to remember some very important facts with the following order of importance:


- The happiness in love is pointed out above all by the positions in the Natal Chart
- A tall score in the Discepolo-Miele system of calculation represents a necessary condition, but the one is not sufficient: even if we have a tall score and one of the two subjects is a person with a low evolution, the relationship will have the tendency to be shipwrecked.
- A tall score in the system of calculation Discepolo-Miele decreases a lot if Mars is present in the principal angles of the two Natal Charts considered.
- A lot of times a crisis in the relationship doesn't mean the end of the relationship of couple, but simply a crisis in relation to a not good Aimed Solar Return.

In your Natal Chart we find two elements contrary to the continuity in the relationships of your couple: Uranus in the your Fifth radix House and the ugly conjunction Mars-Saturn in the your Eleventh House (remember that the Eleventh House is as if it were a Seventh House but less powerful).


Your man, contrarily has a beautiful Venus in the Fifth radix House that predisposes him to love, to many loves... And perhaps also this is a problem.

We come to your specific case. Your man and you have a tall score of couple that, however, is decreased a lot because your radix Mars is opposite to him radix Mars and this means a continuous tendency to the quarrel.



When a woman gives birth to a child, the nature makes so that all the her attention is turned to her child and then there can be - usually - a temporary crisis in the couple, but - a lot of times - the things can be repaired.

Best wishes.

dear Ciro (from Mordecai)

I take the to ask about my own synastry? I did check it on your site and got so so feedback 17 points i think...
I met again my girlfriend of 40 years ago... there are basic similarities between our charts (she was born on 19/5/1953 09:40 AM in Istanbul, Turkey
her venus is exactly oppossing my Sun, her moon conjunct my Asc. and we both have similar relationship problems with the DC in Aquarius... are there any other points that can support this relationship...
many thanks, Mordecai

Dear Mordecai,  

it is right what you have written in relation to your synastry.
I can notice that your score of couple is not very tall and doesn't allow to think about a long and strong passion. Nevertheless we have to also notice that there is no Mars to damage your mutual relationships of radix Sun, Moon, Ascendant and Mars.
It is true that both the Descendants in Aquarius don't favor the long unions, but to the opposite one we have to notice that the overlap of the Houses is an enough positive fact. In conclusion I think that this synastry, not exceptional, but also not bad, could make to continue the relationship investing only some good wish and only a few of good sense in it.

For Gabri that asks what behaves the square Moon-Mars:  

  

  

From my book "The New Guide To Astrology", on www.Amazon.com:

Moon-Mars

Harmonic – Earnest temperament, sincerity, honesty; good health; dynamism and vitality. Great courage, sudden decisions, quick reflexes, strong-willed character; leadership. The ego tends to live the present; these individuals have little interest in the past and little aptitude for strategy, which prevents them from being able to cast long-term programs. Enthusiasm, optimism; ability to drive cars, ride motorcycles, pilot airplanes, etc.; interest in mechanics, surgery and all martial professions. These individuals (or their spouses) are likely to pursue a military career. This aspect may point to their partner having a martial temperament. It also implies sexual and physical strength.

Dissonant – This aspect typically points to aggression or even violence; sometimes it marks people who are victims of violence. It also points to irritability and impulsivity, and lack of self-control. These people may be particularly quarrelsome. When this aspect also involves the conjunction to the DS, it may point to hostility towards others, warmongering spirit. Otherwise, it usually means risk of accidents, wounds, burns and operations (especially involving the stomach). This aspect is adverse to social life in general. Children with this aspect tend to swallow metal objects. It also means aggressive or violent partners; and reckless temerity. Many people with this aspect end up practicing parachuting or mountain climbing, even if they may appear to live a dull and grey life.

The woman of chart # 18 (conjunction) has frequent fights at home implying real physical violence: the conjunction is in the Fourth House. Both ladies of chart # 32 (square) and 50 (conjunction) have an aggressive character. M. K. Gandhi (chart # 94 – square) was victim of violence several times, he was eventually shot.

For Gabri:

Dear Gabri,  

I believe that, considering the very bad positions of birth in the sky of your fiancée, her preceding relationship of couple has lasted many many years because the score was tall (around 20 points) and because there was no Mars celestial aspects in their synastry. 

From Anne Marie and AP who write:

Dear Master Ciro,

I hope all is very well in beautiful Naples. I have just finished reading your book on lunar and terrestrial returns - mind blowing topics. I will study a few options of lunar returns options and share with you.

I have a few questions for you - I am planning a trip to Musandam in the peninsula of Oman (tip of the UAE) in December - do you think this is a good location from an astrocartography perspective? I checked and it is not appear ideal..as it is crossed by a pluto line.

Also, can you please recommend two very favourable locations for me and AP for our 2012 Aimed Solar Returns?

Anne Marie 16.08.73 - Triest, Italy at 2.05 am
AP 18.09.54 - Triest, Italy 20.15 pm

Big Hug and will be in touch very soon

Many congratulations for all the successful foreign publications.

Dear Anne Marie and dear AP,  

I think that I have to explain better, to my students, the use of Astrocartography: it is a very excellent system to improve our life for job, money, health, love, etc. To get this we have to decide to live, for years or for all our life, in some specific locations. Excluding few and rare situations, we cannot use the many locations of the world as if they were place to go to spend the birthday. Therefore, during the year, if for some motive we want to take a trip to New York or to Shanghai or to Berlin, we don't have motive to ask us if these cities are all right or badly for our Astrocartography.  

Here under you will find my suggestions for the your next ASRs. Remember that next year we will have to play in defense because Mars and Saturn can be placed only in the Third or in the Ninth House of the ASR. Many wishes. 

Cara Alessandra,

io che viaggio molto, posso dirti che farai il viaggio più comodo e sereno della tua vita: stando su di una sedia a rotelle, in ogni aeroporto si faranno in quattro per non farti fare le file, per sottoporti soltanto a piccoli controlli, per portarti loro al gate giusto, per farti salire per prima in aereo, per darti un buon posto e godrai di tanti altri privilegi che noi "comuni mortali" non possiamo ottenere.

Fai buon viaggio e goditi questo splendido compleanno!

Cara Catia,

questo è un caso in cui ciascuno - credo - dovrebbe regolarsi come pensa che sia più giusto.

Io mi sono comportato così. Quando i miei genitori erano ancora vivi e anziani, io chiedevo loro scusa, in anticipo, se mi fossi trovato nella necessità di partire per il compleanno mirato mentre loro stavano male. Lo avrei fatto per le mie figlie: se restavo a casa a tenere la mano di mia madre o di mio padre tra le mie, cosa che avrei voluto fare molto volentieri, mi sarei beccato un duro compleanno e questo, di conseguenza, avrebbe arrecato danno alle altre mie persone care. 

Ma, ripeto, sono casi di coscienza in cui ciascuno si regola come meglio crede.

Cara Lella,

ho letto diverse ricerche del bravo collega francese Didier Castille, ma questa non la ricordo proprio. Se mi mandi un link preciso, potrò darti una risposta.

Relativamente alla seconda domanda, come sai, occorre guardare tutto il tema natale per dare un giudizio mirato a una persona che magari hai in mente. Diversamente credo che le indicazioni della mia "Nuova Guida all'Astrologia" possano soddisfarti almeno in parte. Un caro saluto.

Cara Giulia,

allora scusami, ma non avevo capito.

Spero di non dimenticare nulla. Amici, questo blog mi ha impegnato per oltre sei ore!

Buona Giornata a Tutti.

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